The Psyche and Eros Relationship Analysis for

Tom Anybody

and

Ann Somebody




Birth Data for Tom Anybody:
April 19, 2005
11:50:21 AM
Chicago, Illinois


Birth Data for Ann Somebody:
April 12, 1965
12:11:28 PM
New York, New York



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The Psyche and Eros Compatibility Report

     What is it you want to know when you are checking out a romantic relationship? Basically two things. First, you want to understand the emotional needs, temperament, hang-ups and issues each person brings to the relationship. In other words, the relationship potential of each person. And then, of course, you want to understand how the emotional needs, temperament, hang-ups and issues of one person relate to those of another person in order to see how they would get along. In other words, the compatibility analysis.

     The first two sections of the complete Psyche and Eros Relationship Analysis describes the relationship potential of each person. Sections 3 and 4 is the compatibility analysis and describes how the two people experience each other and the relationship from the perspective of each person.

     The myth of Psyche and Eros is a love story which shows the soul's longing for -- and ultimate attainment of -- love.


     Your birth chart interpretation is based on the positions of the planets at the time of your birth. For the benefit of students of astrology, these positions, along with other technical information, are listed below:

Data for Tom Anybody:              Data for Ann Somebody:
Tropical Zodiac                    Tropical Zodiac
House System: PLACIDUS             House System: PLACIDUS
Daylight Savings Time observed     Standard time observed
Time Zone: 6 hours West            Time Zone: 5 hours West
GMT: 16:50:21                      GMT: 17:11:28
41 N 51        87 W 39             40 N 42 51     74 W 00 23

Sun   29 deg 43 min Ari            Sun   22 deg 35 min Ari
Moon   3 deg 45 min Vir            Moon  11 deg 08 min Vir
Merc   3 deg 59 min Ari            Merc  15 deg 21 min Ari
Venus  4 deg 45 min Tau            Venus 22 deg 43 min Ari
Mars  21 deg 43 min Aqu            Mars   9 deg 03 min Vir
Jup   11 deg 58 min Lib            Jup   27 deg 51 min Tau
Sat   21 deg 08 min Can            Sat   12 deg 50 min Pis
Uran   9 deg 32 min Pis            Uran  11 deg 15 min Vir
Nept  17 deg 21 min Aqu            Nept  19 deg 20 min Sco
Pluto 24 deg 22 min Sag            Pluto 14 deg 07 min Vir
Asc.  29 deg 52 min Can            Asc.   8 deg 30 min Leo
MC    13 deg 56 min Ari            MC    26 deg 28 min Ari
2nd   19 deg 37 min Leo            2nd   29 deg 17 min Leo
3rd   13 deg 29 min Vir            3rd   24 deg 43 min Vir
5th   20 deg 53 min Sco            5th    2 deg 57 min Sag
6th   28 deg 13 min Sag            6th    8 deg 15 min Cap


SECTION I:  How Tom Anybody Relates to Other People


Capricorn on 7th house cusp

     You are emotional, sensitive, domestic and extremely self-protective. Your relationship with your parents was not balanced in that you were far more affected by your mother than you were by your father. You unconsciously seek your father's qualities in a partner.

     The people you are close to are well-organized, ambitious and, at times, a bit melancholy. They give your life structure and take care of you practically and materially (not necessarily financially) the way you take care of them emotionally. You create a nest.

     You are a nurturing, loving, parenting person who likes to take care of people. You try to create an emotionally safe space for Ann Somebody to enable the sharing of inner needs and longings that people outside the home would never suspect. Privacy makes the relationship special for you.

     Your partners usually require a good deal of attention. They are often serious people and sometimes rather depression-prone. They tend to be ambitious and successful but not very expressive emotionally. They may require more understanding than they give.


Saturn, Ruler of 7th house, is in 12th:

     Everyone depends on you.  You are there when anyone needs to talk or needs not to talk but to be understood.  You have a wonderful capacity to nurture and provide care.  It's important to remember that you too need care and understanding.  While you are very good at accepting outstretched hands seeking help, you are a little reluctant to reach out yourself.

     You may, at some point, form a bond with someone whose life is very different from your own and with whom observers might think you don't share much in common.  However, this person offers you something very rare: understanding.  If practical considerations require that you form a committed relationship with someone who shares your material and social interests, this special friend might occupy the shadows of your life, not known to most of your friends and family.  You will probably have more than one significant relationship in your life.  Two at the same time creates clear complications.  Not everything is an either-or choice.  There are trade-offs and compromises.  Sometimes they become more apparent the second time around.

Neptune in 7th

     Your highest ideals are tested through your relationships. Your partners are either extraordinarily talented, spiritually evolved and sensitive or they are dissolute, escapist and irresponsible. Either way, you are required to make some sort of sacrifice.

     One reason you may be so obsessive about your relationships is it's the one area of your life that isn't motivated by practical considerations. Even the negative ties help you to connect with the more spiritual side of yourself. You idealize your partners.

Sun Square Asc. with an orb of less than 1/2 degree

     You have a strong, dynamic personality which is not always supported by the inner confidence that you are sufficiently recognized and respected. You may, at times, over-compensate for this anxiety by being excessively assertive or egocentric.

Jupiter Opposition MC with an orb between 1 and 3 degrees

     When you were little, your teachers liked you and when you grew up, your employers liked you. You tend to approach all relationships both personal and professional with an easy assurance. It is important to you that close ties enjoy society's approval.

Moon Trine Venus with an orb between 1 and 3 degrees

     Lucky you. As a child you received a great deal of love leaving you not only with the capacity to love deeply yourself but with the security of knowing that you have value and that there will always be people you can turn to. You form love ties easily.

Moon Quincunx Mercury with an orb of less than 1 degree

     It's as if the emotional and rational sides of your nature take turns expressing themselves. You are either utterly detached and objective about a situation or so emotionally involved you have no perspective. You are not in touch with your feelings.

Venus Square Asc. with an orb between 3 and 5 degrees

     You are personally attractive with a natural charm which tends to draw people to you. Your native courtesy tends to make others assume that you share their values even when this isn't quite the case. You are unusually sensitive to others' appearance.

Sun Trine Moon with an orb between 3 and 5 degrees

     Whether or not your parents themselves had a successful marriage, you came away with a clear sense of the masculine and feminine and how they integrate. You are comfortable with the opposite sex and have no problem forming healthy, enduring relationships.

Mercury Trine Asc. with an orb between 3 and 5 degrees

     You are extremely verbal and communicative and have no difficulty in making your thoughts and ideas clearly understood. At times, however, you may become a bit glib and use your "gift of gab" as a means of protecting yourself from emotional vulnerability.

Venus Sextile Uranus with an orb between 1 and 5 degrees

     There is nothing humdrum about the way that you love. You have a flair for the unusual and the creative and are drawn to those who shun the conventional. You shy away from those who tend to be over-possessive. Your love affairs are also wonderful friendships.

Neptune Sextile MC with an orb between 1 and 5 degrees

     You are guided far more by your spiritual ideals than by more material motivations. While intimate ties are important to you, if the other person didn't share your more cosmic goals, the relationship could not last. Your dreams often become realities.

Mercury SemiSquare Neptune with an orb between 1 and 2 degrees

     Your imagination is so powerful that, if you don't have a strong creative or spiritual outlet, you may at times be over-influenced by your own fantasies or those of others. Beware of gullibility. In the long run, telling the truth is in your best interest.

Sun Conjunct Venus with an orb between 5 and 8 degrees

     Most people like you. You form relationships easily but may have some difficulty sustaining them. You tend to project your own ego ideals onto your partner, sometimes at the expense of relating to their needs. For you, admiration is a prerequisite for love.

Moon Opposition Uranus with an orb between 5 and 8 degrees

     You have an emotional, if not conscious, recollection of early emotional nurturing which was erratic or unpredictable. As an adult, you instinctively set up emotional situations where you have some independent outlet - either other people or work projects.

Mercury Opposition Jupiter with an orb between 5 and 8 degrees

     Details are not your cup of tea. You are fascinated by philosophy and the world of ideas. You are a great talker and reader and your best companions will be those who share your concepts and ideals. You prefer professional people with a certain flair.

Saturn Square MC with an orb between 5 and 8 degrees

     You learned at an early age to be cautious with people in a position of authority. This reserve may also extend to personal relationships with those you may admire or respect. Old parenting issues inevitably infiltrate all of your close relationships.

Sun Trine Pluto with an orb between 5 and 8 degrees

     Power struggles plague your relationships. Either you become the dominant partner out of a fear of being controlled or you become very passive, controlling indirectly through guilt or manipulation. Your father may have been emotionally abusive to you.




SECTION II:  How Ann Somebody Relates to Other People


Aquarius on 7th house cusp

     Love, for you, is a beautiful friendship and there is nothing in your life more important to you. You are a total romantic and if you don't always express this, it is because you've been hurt or disappointed and you are too proud to show your vulnerability.

     You are warm and charismatic and shine in a group. You are also quite shy and often need to be alone. You draw unusual and independent people who admire your emotional intensity but don't share it. Detachment can both intrigue you and hurt your feelings.

     You have a tendency to romanticize everyone you feel attracted to. Someone who is emotionally unresponsive, erratic and unemployed, would immediately be labeled as brilliant, visionary and too poetically free to worry about social standards or your needs.

     Once the attraction wears off or your feelings have been hurt one too many times, the unconventional behavior is reevaluated and the relationship ends as suddenly as it began. You love unusual people when they are loving, idealistic and let you feel free.


Uranus, Ruler of 7th house, is in 2nd:

     As romantic and passionate as you are with your relationships, you are also possessive and very involved with material matters.  Money may come to you through real estate or family and this has a strong impact upon your personal relationships.  In the best of all worlds, there is a business or material connection with your personal partners.  When this is not the case and the money comes solely or for the most part from one of you, power struggles may result -- and not always about money.  Money and possessions merely become the metaphor for control.  This is particularly true if you live together.  When the finances are more equal, the emotional side of the relationship becomes easier and the vying for leverage and control ceases to be an issue.

     It is possible that you connect with someone who had a previous relationship which ended disastrously either through a break-up or death.  If this is the case, subsequent relationships will be approached with caution or a seeming coolness or detachment.  Be patient.  Trust may come slowly but when it does, you have a bond which lasts a lifetime.

Sun Conjunct Venus with an orb of less than 1/2 degree

     Most people like you. You form relationships easily but may have some difficulty sustaining them. You tend to project your own ego ideals onto your partner, sometimes at the expense of relating to their needs. For you, admiration is a prerequisite for love.

Moon Conjunct Uranus with an orb of less than 1/2 degree

     You have an emotional, if not conscious, recollection of early emotional nurturing which was erratic or unpredictable. As an adult, you instinctively set up emotional situations where you have some independent outlet - either other people or work projects.

Moon Conjunct Mars with an orb between 1 and 3 degrees

     Your love-hate relationship with your mother has led to an emotional ambivalence in current close ties. You are, at once, very needy and very angry about your neediness. This may make you somewhat cantankerous at times. You are very quick-tempered.

Moon Conjunct Pluto with an orb between 1 and 3 degrees

     You had an over-controlling parent and something inside of you decided that no one else would ever have that kind of control over you again. You tend to repress your deepest feelings and fears and are surprised when close ties suggest you're manipulative.

Moon Opposition Saturn with an orb between 1 and 3 degrees

     You don't have as much self-confidence as you appear to have. You long for love and affection but have never felt, since childhood, that you could have it, simply by being. You feel you have to earn it in some way. You like close ties to need and depend on you.

Moon Sesquiquadrate MC with an orb of less than 1 degree

     You are forever embroiled in controversy with people in positions of authority which, at times, may attract public attention. You want and need approval more than you care to admit to yourself, but it must be on your terms and not entail any compromise.

Venus Conjunct MC with an orb between 3 and 5 degrees

     Love cannot exist for you without admiration and respect. You like to feel proud of your relationships and often form close ties with those in positions of authority. You are socially conscious and attract friends and good fortune through your personal charm and talent.

Mars Opposition Saturn with an orb between 3 and 5 degrees

     Your emotional needs were not met when you were growing up and there was nothing you could do about it. Even today, you tend not to express anger or pain or resentment except when you are in an infrequent rage. This is a problem in close relationships.

Sun Sesquiquadrate Mars with an orb between 1 and 2 degrees

     Something in your relationship with your father aroused in you either fear or anger or both. Your relationships with men - personally or professionally - are not comfortable and when you are feeling vulnerable, you can be overly defensive or challenging.

Venus Sesquiquadrate Mars with an orb between 1 and 2 degrees

     Yours was not a happy childhood and, while there is nothing you want more than a close love relationship, you may also fear it. You probably have an active sex life but may have some discomfort acknowledging feelings of love, dependence or vulnerability.

Mercury Conjunct Venus with an orb between 5 and 8 degrees

     Intelligence is sexy to you. If a person you find physically attractive isn't also bright, verbal and someone you can talk to, you're not interested. You have a highly developed aesthetic sense and are drawn to people of taste, wit and charm.

Mercury Trine Asc. with an orb between 5 and 8 degrees

     You are extremely verbal and communicative and have no difficulty in making your thoughts and ideas clearly understood. At times, however, you may become a bit glib and use your "gift of gab" as a means of protecting yourself from emotional vulnerability.

Sun does not aspect Moon

     Your parents' interests and emotional natures, while not in violent conflict, were so different it was hard to understand how they ever came together. You associate close relationships with both longing and loneliness and may be unclear about roles.

Sun does not aspect Asc.

     People do not receive an accurate first impression of you. Owing to shyness or lack of confidence, you have cultivated a persona which is not expressive of the person you experience yourself to be. This creates complications in personal relationships.

Moon does not aspect Mercury

     It's as if the emotional and rational sides of your nature take turns expressing themselves. You are either utterly detached and objective about a situation or so emotionally involved you have no perspective. You are not in touch with your feelings.




SECTION III:  The Relationship from Tom Anybody's Point of View


     Tom Anybody, the following information explains how you view your relationship with Ann Somebody, and explores some of the major issues that arise.

Your Mars Sextile Ann Somebody's Sun (orb < 1 deg)

     One thing we can say about this relationship: it isn't boring. The two of you stimulate each other both erotically and professionally. You are constantly doing things together and sharing mutual interests. You are affectionate but not sentimental.

Your Sun Sesqu. Ann Somebody's Pluto (orb < 1 deg)

     You may feel an excessively strong need to assert yourself as your ego feels very threatened by  Ann Somebody's subtle power over you. Your fascination with Ann Somebody makes it difficult for you to sever the tie even if you feel the relationship is wrong for you.

Your Sun Conj Ann Somebody's MC (orb 1-5 deg)

     You may have initially been more influenced by Ann Somebody's public image than more intimate persona. Ann Somebody appears to admire you greatly and you respond to that by taking a great interest in the goals and ambitions to which both of you aspire.

Your MC Conj Ann Somebody's Mercury (orb 1-5 deg)

     You really admire Ann Somebody's intelligence and way of speaking. There is something about it that you respect. It vibrates with a certain authority for you and you will defer to it. Ann Somebody enjoys sharing new ideas with you. You would work well together.

Your Venus Square Ann Somebody's Asc. (orb 1-5 deg)

     There is something about the way Ann Somebody looks and behaves which charms and captivates you. You were attracted from the first meeting. Perhaps you even fell in love a little. Ann Somebody may represent a private fantasy.

Your Mars Square Ann Somebody's Neptune (orb 1-5 deg)

     No matter how long or how well you may know Ann Somebody, there is an elusive quality which continues to fascinate. While you are stimulated by Ann Somebody's idealism, you may also be frustrated by what feels like excessive secrecy. Your aggressive curiosity gets you nowhere.

Your Mercury Trine Ann Somebody's Asc. (orb 1-5 deg)

     Sharing ideas is a very important element of your relationship. From the beginning, you sensed Ann Somebody was someone you could talk to, who would understand you and, even when you disagreed, would provide a good sounding board for pet theories or business schemes.

Your Venus Trine Ann Somebody's Mars (orb 1-5 deg)

     A sexual energy permeates your relationship and will underlie all aspects of your connection. In addition Ann Somebody stimulates your creativity, heightens your energy and lends a certain excitement to all of your contacts. Ann Somebody's presence makes you feel livelier.

Your Mars Sextile Ann Somebody's Venus (orb 1-5 deg)

     The sexual energy between the two of you was immediate and powerful from the first meeting. This could never be an entirely platonic relationship. If you are not lovers, you will be confidantes and love and sex will be your favorite topics of conversation.

Your Mars Sextile Ann Somebody's MC (orb 1-5 deg)

     You really motivate Ann Somebody to achieve long-held life goals and ambitions. This is partly due to a lively sense of competition the relationship arouses in you and partly to a genuine enthusiasm you feel for Ann Somebody's career. When Ann Somebody is successful, you feel successful.

Your Asc. Sextile Ann Somebody's Jupiter (orb 1-5 deg)

     Ann Somebody makes you feel wonderful when you are alone together. Yours is, at the very least, a lovely friendship. This would also be a good working relationship. You are helpful to Ann Somebody. Sometimes one of you encourages the other to take irresponsible chances.

Your Sun SemiSqr Ann Somebody's Saturn (orb 1-5 deg)

     Your connection with Ann Somebody is strangely bonding. If you are willing to submit to the restrictions and responsibilities this relationship imposes, it will be a lifetime tie which will improve with time. This can never be a casual relationship.

Your Sun Sesqu. Ann Somebody's Moon (orb 1-5 deg)

     While you may communicate very well on a rational level, sometimes you may feel as if Ann Somebody doesn't really understand you. You may find Ann Somebody's emotional responses incomprehensible as well. You have to make a special effort to share and connect.

Your Sun Sesqu. Ann Somebody's Uranus (orb 1-5 deg)

     You were attracted from the very first meeting. You felt, on one hand, that you completely understood Ann Somebody and, on the other, that you never knew what to expect next. You admire Ann Somebody's originality. It taps into a uniqueness of your own.

Your Moon Sesqu. Ann Somebody's Mercury (orb 1-5 deg)

     You often come away from discussions with Ann Somebody feeling kind of irritated. You've made your point and Ann Somebody replied  but somehow there's been no connection. The logic is there but not the understanding. You probably shouldn't work together.

Your Moon Sesqu. Ann Somebody's Venus (orb 1-5 deg)

     No matter how long you've been together, there's something about this relationship which prevents you from feeling entirely secure or truly loved. Ann Somebody doesn't always make you feel good about being who you are.

Your Moon does not aspect Ann Somebody's Moon

     While you may like and respect each other and understand each other intellectually, there is an emotional distance which might prevent you from being truly at home with or comfortable with each other. You may, at times, find each other's moods or responses puzzling.

Your Mercury does not aspect Ann Somebody's Mercury

     You don't think alike. Even if you are in emotional accord, there are times you seriously question if you see the same world since, while your perceptions are not necessarily in conflict, they are so different. Discussions are rarely fruitful or pleasurable.

Your Mercury does not aspect Ann Somebody's Venus

     There is something about Ann Somebody's personal style and taste and way of expressing affection which doesn't comfortably merge with your own. It may not exactly lead to war, but it may have delayed the initial attraction. Your philosophies aren't quite in sync.

Your Venus does not aspect Ann Somebody's Venus

     While you may be very fond of each other, you're quite dissimilar in some important ways. Your tastes diverge widely and you tend to express love very differently. You don't like the same people and have different interests. You wish Ann Somebody dressed differently.

Ann Somebody's Sun in your 10th house:

     Ann Somebody has a charismatic quality and a certain authority which you admired from the first time you met. That respect has never entirely faded. You may even be a little afraid of Ann Somebody.

     If you work together, you would permit Ann Somebody to set the direction even if the reality of your respective roles placed you in the position of authority. Actually you are very proud of your association and feel it enhances your personal reputation.

Ann Somebody's Moon in your 2nd house:

     Ann Somebody has always related intuitively to your creative and material resources and has had a remarkable effect upon the development of those resources as well as your financial status. Ann Somebody also has a knack for selecting the perfect gift.

     Your relationship may be so intense that you have become quite possessive and may tend to lavish gifts and money upon Ann Somebody as a means of manipulation in order to foster a need which mirrors your own. Ann Somebody makes you feel vulnerable.

Ann Somebody's Mercury in your 10th house:

     When Ann Somebody talks, you listen. You admire Ann Somebody's ideas and style of expression and often seek out and respect advice in matters of career and life direction. Ann Somebodys thoughts on issues sometimes remind you of your mother's which may explain the degree to which you defer to them.

     You like the way Ann Somebody speaks and writes and the two of you may be working together on a joint professional project or you may be studying a subject of mutual interest. On some level Ann Somebody may play the role of your teacher.

Ann Somebody's Venus in your 10th house:

     Ann Somebody has a special charm and panache which immediately attracted you. You not only like the personal style and taste, you admire the talent and creativity. This attraction is quite mutual. If you met in a public place, you really caught Ann Somebody's eye.

     Ann Somebody respects you and has great admiration for your ability. This can be extremely beneficial to your career and reputation. You can only gain through creative suggestions and affectionate support. You both value your tie and enjoy being seen together.

Ann Somebody's Mars in your 2nd house:

     Ann Somebody challenges your values and while you may have some disagreements about what is important, this relationship motivates you to clarify your own thinking. Ann Somebody's energy activates feelings of possessiveness in you which may have taken you by surprise.

     This relationship also has a strong effect upon your financial affairs. Ann Somebody may be energetically involved in a project which will greatly increase your own earnings. Even if material concerns are not ordinarily a high priority, money matters will increase in importance.

Ann Somebody's Jupiter in your 11th house:

     Ann Somebody is a wonderful friend to you: generous with time, wise and helpful. Ann Somebody can also be very important in helping you to define your goals. Perhaps you share an interest in a particular cause. Your relationship intensifies your interest and vice versa.

     You have warm and loyal friends in common who serve to expand your own friendship. You may both be part of a group or, if you work together, a department, which forms an integral part of your connection. Your relationship needs a strong social component.

Ann Somebody's Saturn in your 8th house:

     It would be better if this was a friendship or business relationship. There could be difficulties if it were more intimate or sexual. Of course, things can be worked out. The problem has to do with trust. You're a little afraid to be vulnerable to Ann Somebody.

     You have a strong sense of responsibility for Ann Somebody's financial situation. If you don't actually wind up paying the bills, you are certainly concerned about the expenses. Ann Somebody's lack of funds or judgment might reduce your own business prospects.

Ann Somebody's Uranus in your 2nd house:

     If you are looking for new and unusual ways to spend your money, stick with Ann Somebody who will have no problem coming up with something. If a stable financial situation is important to you, you may have to rethink this relationship and its volatile effects.

     On the other hand, if you are looking for new and unusual ways to earn money, you should also stick with Ann Somebody whose originality and inventiveness and can stimulate you to add to your resources in ways which you wouldn't have thought of independently.

Ann Somebody's Neptune in your 4th house:

     You could live very comfortably with Ann Somebody because you have similar ideas of the ideal, happy home. You also tend to like the same music and can, very happily, enjoy quiet times in which you enjoy being together even when doing different things.

     Close as you may be, however, there is an elusive quality about Ann Somebody which remains mysterious to you. You may often sense what is being thought or felt but it surely isn't being discussed. Sometimes you may wonder about out-and-out deception.

Ann Somebody's Pluto in your 3rd house:

     Sometimes when you are getting ready to change your environment, someone comes into your life who so shakes up your thinking and reflects your altered perspective, that remaining in the old situation becomes truly impossible. Ann Somebody has this effect upon you.

     You would work wonderfully together on any project involving either depth analysis or research. You both enjoy digging below the surface - frequently in each other's lives - and any type of cooperative probing would enhance this friendship and draw you closer.




SECTION IV:  The Relationship from Ann Somebody's Point of View


     Ann Somebody, the following information explains how you view your relationship with Tom Anybody, and explores some of the major issues that arise.

Your Mars Oppos Tom Anybody's Uranus (orb < 1 deg)

     One thing's for sure: this relationship isn't dull. It may be unpredictable and drive you crazy but Tom Anybody definitely doesn't bore you and can always get a reaction from you. Tom Anybody  fascinates you and often gets you to do things you ordinarily don't.




Your Sun Sextile Tom Anybody's Mars (orb < 1 deg)

     You enjoy Tom Anybody's energy which both attracts you and stimulates you. You enjoy doing things together and can enjoy a friendly competition without becoming involved in unpleasant hostilities. There may also be considerable sexual attraction here.




Your Mercury Conj Tom Anybody's MC (orb 1-5 deg)

     This would be a very good working relationship. You connect very strongly with Tom Anybody's goals and ambitions and can, through your communication skills, work together to attain them. Tom Anybody respects your intelligence and opinions and will frequently defer to your judgment.

Your MC Conj Tom Anybody's Sun (orb 1-5 deg)

     You admire Tom Anybody and enjoy doing things together. Tom Anybody's natural vitality helps you both to identify and pursue life goals and directions since you share them. This would be a productive professional tie. You wouldn't mind if Tom Anybody played the leader.

Your Moon Oppos Tom Anybody's Uranus (orb 1-5 deg)

     One thing's for sure: Tom Anybody doesn't exactly have a calming effect upon you emotionally. We might even go so far as to say that Tom Anybody rattles you at times. However, Tom Anybody also stimulates and intrigues you. Even if the ideas are odd, you must admit they're not dull.

Your Mercury Oppos Tom Anybody's Jupiter (orb 1-5 deg)

     The two of you talk easily. Tom Anybody enables you both to expand your ideas and to express them. If anything, Tom Anybody tends to trigger so much enthusiasm in you, sometimes you say more than you should. You trust Tom Anybody's intelligence and guidance.

Your Sun Square Tom Anybody's Saturn (orb 1-5 deg)

     Your connection with Tom Anybody is strangely bonding. If you are willing to submit to the restrictions and responsibilities this relationship imposes, it will be a lifetime tie which will improve with time. This can never be a casual relationship.

Your Venus Square Tom Anybody's Saturn (orb 1-5 deg)

     Sometimes Tom Anybody puts too much pressure on you which can be a turn-off -- especially when that pressure becomes too demanding, too jealous or, in some way, too inhibiting of your pleasure. A natural response to withdraw only makes it worse. Tom Anybody secretly longs for your approval.

Your Asc. Square Tom Anybody's Venus (orb 1-5 deg)

     The attraction between the two of you is very powerful. Your physical being personifies all that Tom Anybody finds most attractive and you feel Tom Anybody's warmth, sensuality and affection in a very palpable way. You find the same things - and each other - beautiful.

Your Sun Trine Tom Anybody's Pluto (orb 1-5 deg)

     Tom Anybody exerts an odd influence over you which enables you to get in touch with your own deepest needs and strengths. You find Tom Anybody fascinating and almost enjoy the sense of being manipulated which is certainly not true of your relationship with others.

Your Venus Trine Tom Anybody's Pluto (orb 1-5 deg)

     Tom Anybody holds a special fascination for you. The bond between you might be somewhat obsessive. Tom Anybody often exerts an influence over you others may find difficult to understand. This relationship can transform the way you love and relate the rest of your life.

Your Mars Trine Tom Anybody's Venus (orb 1-5 deg)

     The sexual energy between the two of you was immediate and powerful from the first meeting. This could never be an entirely platonic relationship. If you are not lovers, you will be confidantes and love and sex will be your favorite topics of conversation.

Your Asc. Trine Tom Anybody's Mercury (orb 1-5 deg)

     There is something about your persona which gives Tom Anybody a sense that you would be a good person to talk to because you relate well to others' ideas. This is true. The intellectual tie between you transcends disagreements and creates understandings.

Your MC Trine Tom Anybody's Pluto (orb 1-5 deg)

     Since you met, your life direction has been totally transformed. This relationship has a strange influence over you, particularly on a professional level. Tom Anybody connects strongly to your public image and projects a power onto you which can be worrying.

Your Mercury Sextile Tom Anybody's Neptune (orb 1-5 deg)

     There are times you understand what Tom Anybody isn't saying better than what is actually being said. You intuitively tune into each other -- even when you're not actually together. Tom Anybody understands your views and admires the way you express them. You share dreams and ideals.

Your Venus Sextile Tom Anybody's Mars (orb 1-5 deg)

     A sexual energy permeates your relationship and will underlie all aspects of your connection. In addition Tom Anybody stimulates your creativity, heightens your energy and lends a certain excitement to all of your contacts. Tom Anybody's presence makes you feel livelier.

Your Asc. Sextile Tom Anybody's Jupiter (orb 1-5 deg)

     Tom Anybody makes you feel wonderful when you are alone together. Yours is, at the very least, a lovely friendship. This would also be a good working relationship. You are helpful to Tom Anybody. Sometimes one of you encourages the other to take irresponsible chances.

Your MC Sextile Tom Anybody's Mars (orb 1-5 deg)

     Tom Anybody relates quite intensely to your public or professional persona. You may find this unsettling at times -- particularly when you sense the competitiveness or unconscious hostility you inadvertently arouse. One thing's for sure: when Tom Anybody's around, you act.

Your Sun SemiSqr Tom Anybody's Uranus (orb 1-5 deg)

     You were attracted from the very first meeting. You felt, on one hand, that you completely understood Tom Anybody and, on the other, that you never knew what to expect next. You admire Tom Anybody's originality. It taps into a uniqueness of your own.

Your Moon SemiSqr Tom Anybody's Saturn (orb 1-5 deg)

     No matter how close you, you're never entirely comfortable emotionally when you are together. Tom Anybody subtly affects your self-confidence and you may have a disquieting sense that no matter how hard you try to please you never entirely succeed.

Your Mars SemiSqr Tom Anybody's Saturn (orb 1-5 deg)

     On one level Tom Anybody fascinates you and motivates you to be the best that you can be. On another, there is something about Tom Anybody which pressures you somehow and can lead to resentment. If this is not dealt with openly, it can inhibit sexual responsiveness.

Your Sun Sesqu. Tom Anybody's Moon (orb 1-5 deg)

     While you may communicate very well on a rational level, sometimes you may feel as if Tom Anybody doesn't really understand you. You may find Tom Anybody's emotional responses incomprehensible as well. You have to make a special effort to share and connect.

Your Moon does not aspect Tom Anybody's Moon

     While you may like and respect each other and understand each other intellectually, there is an emotional distance which might prevent you from being truly at home with or comfortable with each other. You may, at times, find each other's moods or responses puzzling.

Your Mercury does not aspect Tom Anybody's Mercury

     You don't think alike. Even if you are in emotional accord, there are times you seriously question if you see the same world since, while your perceptions are not necessarily in conflict, they are so different. Discussions are rarely fruitful or pleasurable.

Your Mercury does not aspect Tom Anybody's Venus

     There is something about Tom Anybody's personal style and taste and way of expressing affection which doesn't comfortably merge with your own. It may not exactly lead to war, but it may have delayed the initial attraction. Your philosophies aren't quite in sync.

Your Venus does not aspect Tom Anybody's Venus

     While you may be very fond of each other, you're quite dissimilar in some important ways. Your tastes diverge widely and you tend to express love very differently. You don't like the same people and have different interests. You wish Tom Anybody dressed differently.

Tom Anybody's Sun in your 10th house:

     Tom Anybody has a charismatic quality and a certain authority which you admired from the first time you met. That respect has never entirely faded. You may even be a little afraid of Tom Anybody.

     If you work together, you would permit Tom Anybody to set the direction even if the reality of your respective roles placed you in the position of authority. Actually you are very proud of your association and feel it enhances your personal reputation.

Tom Anybody's Moon in your 2nd house:

     Tom Anybody has always related intuitively to your creative and material resources and has had a remarkable effect upon the development of those resources as well as your financial status. Tom Anybody also has a knack for selecting the perfect gift.

     Your relationship may be so intense that you have become quite possessive and may tend to lavish gifts and money upon Tom Anybody as a means of manipulation in order to foster a need which mirrors your own. Tom Anybody makes you feel vulnerable.

Tom Anybody's Mercury in your 9th house:

     You share many spiritual and philosophical interests and always find what Tom Anybody has to say of interest. Whatever the reality of your respective positions, on some level Tom Anybody is your teacher and frequently points the way to new perspectives and philosophies.

     You would travel very well together. Tom Anybody tends to be curious about you and about the things and places which interest you. You might also be involved together in a venture related to education, publishing politics or issues relating to the spiritual.

Tom Anybody's Venus in your 10th house:

     Tom Anybody has a special charm and panache which immediately attracted you. You not only like the personal style and taste, you admire the talent and creativity. This attraction is quite mutual. If you met in a public place, you really caught Tom Anybody's eye.

     Tom Anybody respects you and has great admiration for your ability. This can be extremely beneficial to your career and reputation. You can only gain through creative suggestions and affectionate support. You both value your tie and enjoy being seen together.

Tom Anybody's Mars in your 7th house:

     Tom Anybody's energy really revs you up. The relationship doesn't just stimulate you, it makes you feel more alive and capable of accomplishing things which wouldn't even have occurred to you otherwise. Together, you both work hard and play hard. You are a good team.

     Sometimes, however, you may be a little ambivalent about the way all this affects you. Yes, Tom Anybody can be exciting and fun but Tom Anybody can also get on your nerves and make you feel irritable or competitive. Sometimes it's more like a rivalry than a relationship.

Tom Anybody's Jupiter in your 3rd house:

     No matter how shy or taciturn you may be in other situations, you always have plenty to say to each other. You enjoy your discussions not only because you express yourself so easily and well with Tom Anybody but because you respect and value the benefit of such good judgment.

     You probably have a strong shared interest and may be involved together in an educational or communications project relating to the study of this subject. Tom Anybody would encourage any speaking or writing you may do. This relationship somehow makes your environment easier.

Tom Anybody's Saturn in your 12th house:

     It's going to be necessary for you to be assertive with Tom Anybody even though it will probably be difficult for you. You may find yourself in a situation where Tom Anybody is not meeting your needs but you are so afraid to lose the relationship, you'll just suffer in silence.

     It's sometimes hard to define the anxieties that Tom Anybody's presence in your life evokes. It almost seems to arise from a distant past you can't quite recall. Tom Anybody can depend on you to the point of being a burden. You often feel trapped by this relationship.

Tom Anybody's Uranus in your 8th house:

     You find something unsettling about Tom Anybody's very presence. Even if Tom Anybody is not the sort of person you are ordinarily attracted to, you find yourself responding  in a sexual way. At the very least, intense curiosity and interest are aroused.

     Tom Anybody's unusual talents and special abilities not only fascinate you,  they may stimulate you to concoct innovative financial schemes which can be of mutual material interest. Business ties would be erratic.

Tom Anybody's Neptune in your 7th house:

     If there is one thing this relationship does not have, it is clarity. While you can't help responding to a romantic, dreamy quality you have always sensed in Tom Anybody, you are not always sure where the relationship is going or where Tom Anybody wants it to go.

     Make sure you really hear what you think you're hearing. While it's true there might be a certain amount of deception here, it is equally true there might be a certain amount of illusion arising from wishful thinking or the simple misreading of signals.

Tom Anybody's Pluto in your 5th house:

     This can be a very volatile relationship. Tom Anybody may stir up passions and needs you didn't even know were there. Yes, these could be sexual or love needs but they could also be needs to have a child, take an enormous risk or to create something marvelous.

     The turbulent feelings Tom Anybody arouses in you might well lead you to channel these energies into a creative project in which you are quite spectacularly creative. You will always associate this surge of productivity with Tom Anybody. The outcome is a kind of love-child.